How to deal with negative people

       

         How to deal with Negative people

Friends, every day you met people who are negative-minded, and their talking and behavior hurt you. The world is full of negative people and also positive people. negative peoples make problems for you and positive people make it easier for you. Find good people and keep them close. Firstly, I am a very shy person but then i realized friends are very immportant in life, then slowly slwoly i make friends and by the end of ten class in my school, i am the who has the most friends in schoool, everyone knows me and know them and today, whenever think about my friends i becomes sad because school time gone and everyone is busy with their own life.

Today I will tell you how to deal with negative people around you.

Expectation level:

Expectation

Imagine, You want to buy a phone and you go to the market and you a buy a 2nd phone from the most famous shop market. 
But when you come home and check the phone completely, you found some problems and someone tells you that you also pay the high cost. Your heart is broken and you say why he sell me the bad phone. But, If you buy this phone from your friend and the same thing happens, your heart broke more because you don't expect that from your friend. Actually, Our expectations hurt us not others. don't expect anything from anyone because in this world everyone is thinking about himself. First know people completely then deal with them according to themselves. when you do this you live a happy life.
Life is a beautiful journey enjoy each and every second of it because it will never come again. many people said; forget about jobs, money, houses, cars, or helicopters, think of how you enjoy this life. According to research when you live a life to enjoy then automatically different ways open for you of wealth.

Let me tell you one more story that will clear your thinking.

Cheetah

Once upon a time Cheetah and donkey are talking about grass. The donkey said Grass is blue and the cheetah said grass is green. Both are arguing heavenly, someone said to go to the king and they will solve your problem

Both went to Lion the king of the jungle. The donkey started and said your majesty you know the grass is blue. Lion said yes grass is blue.

donkey

What's the problem?

The donkey said cheetah is saying the grass is green and he is arguing with me.

Lion ordered the 5 years silence for the cheetah and said to the donkey ok go now.

Donkey returns back saying loudly grass is blue. 

When he gone Cheetah said to Lion why you punish me?

The grass is green everybody knows.

Lion said Yes grass is green.

I didn't punish because of grass, I punish you because you are arguing with foolishness. You are a Cheetah, is it good to argue with a Foolish donkey.

What's the lesson?

Never argue with foolish people who don't even know what the matter is and start selling their things. Silently Pass away from Foolish people and be happy.

This is how you deal with negative people.

Look Positive side:

Positive side

Both positive and negative people live in this world. When someone talks bad to you and you are sad. Never talk about the thing to your relatives and friends because it makes you sadder. leave that thing. Everyone has a good side and a bad side but it is better to focus on the positive side because you know when you think about the bad side you become sad. 
We can't change the world by ourselves. Everyone has the authority to do whatever he thinks. Make yourself happy and never expects anything from anyone. Remember Look at the positive side of everything if you want to be happy in life.
I met many people in my life and I realized my meeting them that people who forget everything quickly are the happiest ones. They don't take other people's words seriously because they know these people are just an obstacle, if they cross it they win. Just like them don't take everyone seriously, pass from them silently and enjoy your life with your own rules.

This is how you deal with negative people.

Make Good Friends: 

Good Friends

There are always some people around you who care about you and never tell you that they care about you but they care. Find those people and come close to them Good friends are the best thing that ever happens to anyone. Good friends give you good ideas and solve your problems. Good friends are just like a burning candle when it's off dark everywhere. Always give time to your friends, enjoy yourself with them because it's a way of life. some parents are very strict and they don't allow their children to play outside or enjoy themselves with friends, I think this is the biggest mistake they ever did with their children's because when they don't know how to deal with people or what's going around the world than in future people. will eat them.

This is how you deal with negative people.

Conclusion:

The Conclusion is, Work hard and do your own work, never expect anything from anyone. Every day look for positive things and get rid of negative people. Make friends who give you rich ideas and help you to fulfill your dreams. Run towards success as cheetahs run towards food. Dream big and do whatever to achieve it. 

I saw people asking I work very hard but still no success. Friends, everything takes time. If you are dreaming about big things then it's obvious it takes more time. Failure is a part of success, if failure is not coming in your way then you are going in the wrong way. Each and every successful person face difficulties in their life  and face them with open heart and that's why they are successful. 

Thank you.







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